Ngati mnyamata ali ndi vuto la ndalama, ali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi chibwenzi. Akhozanso kukhala wopanda pokhala. Komabe, kuthetsa chibwenzi chake chotere, chifukwa chandalama, ndikumuzembera kwa mnzake. Chabwino, ndi misala momwe adzamuyang'ane m'maso pambuyo pake, pamene ndalama sizidzakhala vuto. Koposa zonse zinandikhudza mmene mtsikanayo, ndi maonekedwe okhutitsidwa, anatenga mbewu ya bwenzi lolemerali. Nthawi yomweyo ndinadzifunsa ngati akufunabe chibwenzi chake.
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